Spanning eight long and dramatic seasons, we’ve seen it all on The Vampire Diaries. There have been shocking deaths, serious behind-the-scenes issues and shocking moments when on-screen couples that we originally thought were #NOTP became our ultimate ships. On the other hand, relationships we thought would be together forever also became things of the past. In the time that we’ve been watching the TVD series unfold, we’ve gone through our own unexpected romances and hurtful breakups and sometimes, relating what we’re going through to the lives of our fave characters can make our own experiences more understandable. So, which TVD exes are basically the equivalent of you and your former boo? Take the quiz to find out!